flip flop flip flop back peddle

That's all I'm getting lately.  If it's not one thing it's another.  I must be married to a sandal, a bike peddle or something else all together.  Either that or my recent cold shoulder has put him back into the telling me what he thinks I want to hear stage.  UGH!  I think people forget what they say and that their words tend to stick in the minds of the receivers.   You cannot tell me one thing, don't like the way I treat you because of your words, then proceed to back peddle over what you said just days ago.  

1. I'm not stupid.  
2. My memory isn't that faulty.  
3. I actually pay attention to the words that come out of the the mouths of people.  
4. I don't only hear what I want to hear.

Remember actions speak louder than words, and your actions need to be on the same page as your words.  Not conflicting with them instead.  If you could manage to keep the two on the same line, confusion and frustration would not be setting in.  I wouldn't be pissed off and hurt.  I could learn to live with things and move on.  Until that is done, I will continue to be one pissed off bitch until I can make sense of it all in my own head on my own time.